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⚠️ Disclaimer
I’m not a certified security professional or lawyer. I’m just sharing my experience and security habits - things I try to follow myself and urge my mom to practice as well. This is not a professional security consultation, nor a legal advice. Your situation may differ. When in doubt, consult with qualified paid professionals.
What I told Mom to do if she only had time for TWO THINGS:
- Use a password manager
- Enable two-factor authentication
Everything else is important, but these two tools protect people from the vast majority of attacks. I’m not exaggerating when I say this eliminates about 80% of the risk.
🎯 Bottom Line
Most hacks happen because of password reuse or weak passwords. Fix this ONE thing, and most security problems are solved.
The Password Problem
Let’s be honest. Most people:
- Use the same password for multiple sites (I used to do this)
- Use passwords like “Password123” or their dog’s name (guilty)
- Write passwords on sticky notes (Mom did this)
- Reset their password every time they log in
I get it. Remembering dozens of complex passwords is impossible.
That’s why I use a password manager.
1. I Use a Password Manager (Here’s Why)
What a Password Manager Does
A password manager:
- Generates strong, unique passwords for every site
- Remembers all my passwords for me
- Auto-fills login forms
- Syncs across all my devices
- I only need to remember ONE master password
What I Personally Use: 1Password
I use 1Password for myself and my entire family. My mom uses it too.
Why I chose it:
- Very user-friendly (my mom figured it out!)
- Family plan lets me help my mom remotely
- Travel mode for international trips
- Stores more than passwords (see below)
Cost: ~$5/month for individuals, ~$20/month for families (up to 5 people)
Other Great Options
Bitwarden - FREE & Open-Source
- Excellent free tier
- Open-source (security experts can audit it)
- Great for tech-savvy users
- Premium features for $10/year
Dashlane - Premium Option
- Built-in VPN
- Dark web monitoring
- Slightly more expensive
🗃️ What I Store in Mine
I store more than just passwords in my password manager:
- Emergency contacts
- Passport numbers
- Software license keys
- Secure notes
- Credit card info (for auto-fill)
- WiFi passwords
It’s all encrypted and synced across my devices.

How I Got My Mom to Use It
Step 1: Installed 1Password on her computer and phone Step 2: Added her 5 most important passwords (email, bank, Amazon) Step 3: Let her use it for 2 weeks Step 4: She was hooked - “Where has this been all my life?!”
Now she uses it for everything. No more sticky notes!
Questions Mom Asked Me
“What if I forget my master password?” I told her that’s the trade-off - she’d be locked out. That’s why it’s secure. I told her to write it down and store it somewhere safe (NOT on the computer).
“What if 1Password gets hacked?” They use military-grade encryption. Even if hacked, the data is unreadable without the master password. (This happened to LastPass - users with strong master passwords were fine.)
“Isn’t putting all my eggs in one basket risky?” I told her it’s actually safer than reusing passwords everywhere. When one site gets hacked, hackers try that password on every other site.
2. I Use Two-Factor Authentication (2FA) on Everything
Two-Factor Authentication (also called MFA) means I need TWO things to log in:
- Something I know (my password)
- Something I have (my phone, a code, a hardware key)
Even if someone steals my password, they can’t get in without that second factor.
Where I Have 2FA Enabled
I have it on everything important:
- ✅ Email (Gmail, Outlook, etc.) - I did this first
- ✅ Banking and financial accounts
- ✅ Social media (Facebook, Instagram, X/Twitter)
- ✅ Shopping accounts (Amazon, etc.)
- ✅ Password manager itself
- ✅ Work accounts
- ✅ Any account with personal information
🔐 Critical
If someone hacks email, they can reset passwords for ALL other accounts. That’s why I protected my email with 2FA first.
Types of 2FA (From Least to Most Secure)
1. SMS Text Messages (What I set up for my mom)
- Pros: Easy to understand, works on any phone
- Cons: Can be intercepted (SIM swapping attacks)
- My take: Better than nothing! Perfect for non-tech users
2. Authenticator Apps (What I use)
- Note: 1Password and Bitwarden already include built-in authenticator functionality - no separate app needed!
- Standalone apps (if not using a password manager): Google Authenticator, Microsoft Authenticator
- Pros: More secure than SMS, works offline
- Cons: Slightly more complex setup
- My take: Best balance of security and usability
3. Hardware Security Keys (What I use for important accounts)
- Devices: YubiKey
- Pros: Most secure option, immune to phishing
- Cons: Costs money ($25-50), can lose the key
- My take: Overkill for most people, great for high-value accounts
💀 Real Attack
My friend’s email got hacked. The hacker had his password (from a data breach). But they couldn’t get past 2FA. Crisis averted!
Without 2FA, the hacker would have:
- Accessed his email
- Reset his bank password
- Transferred money out
- Changed passwords on all other accounts
How I Set Up 2FA
For my mom (SMS method):
- Go to account security settings
- Look for “Two-Factor Authentication” or “Two-Step Verification”
- Choose “Text message” option
- Enter phone number
- Enter the code they send
- Done!
For myself (Authenticator app):
- Download Google Authenticator or Microsoft Authenticator
- In account settings, choose “Authenticator app”
- Scan the QR code with the app
- Enter the 6-digit code
- Save backup codes in password manager
🔑 Key Thing
I always save my backup codes. If I lose my phone, these codes let me back in. I store mine in 1Password.
Find Out Which Sites Support 2FA
1Password users: 1Password automatically detects when a site supports 2FA and prompts you to set it up. No need to check manually!
For everyone else: Visit 2fa.directory - it lists thousands of websites and which 2FA methods they support.
3. I Keep My Software Updated
Yeah, this is boring. But it’s critical.
Why I Bother
My firewall and antivirus are only as good as their latest patch. Hackers exploit known vulnerabilities in old software.
What I Update Regularly
- Operating system (Windows, macOS, iOS, Android)
- Web browsers
- Antivirus software
- Router firmware
- All apps on my phone
How I Handle Updates
On Mom’s computer:
- I enabled automatic updates for everything
- I check her router firmware quarterly
On my own devices:
- Auto-update enabled for OS and apps
- Manual check for router/IoT devices monthly
🤷 My Take
I enable automatic updates. Yes, the restart is annoying. Yes, it’s worth it.
4. Antivirus: What I Use
My Setup
On Windows (Mom’s computer):
- Windows Defender - it’s excellent and FREE (built into Windows 10/11)
- I told her not to pay for expensive antivirus
- I made sure she didn’t disable it
On Mac (my computer):
- macOS built-in protection
- Malwarebytes for occasional extra scanning
What I avoid:
- Kaspersky (banned by FCC in 2022 due to national security concerns)
- Free antivirus that constantly tries to upsell
How I Keep It Effective
- Auto-update enabled
- I run full scans monthly
- I never disable it “just for this one download”
The 80/20 Rule in Action
Here’s what I did for my mom, in order:
- ✅ Installed 1Password (took 30 minutes)
- ✅ Enabled 2FA on her email via SMS (5 minutes)
- ✅ Enabled 2FA on her bank (10 minutes)
- ✅ Enabled Windows auto-updates (2 minutes)
Total time: Under 1 hour
Risk reduction: ~80%
That’s it. Four things. One hour. Massive improvement.
What I’d Do First If Starting Over
If I were starting fresh, here’s what I’d tackle first:
- Install a password manager - I use 1Password, but Bitwarden is excellent too
- Enable 2FA on email - This was the first thing I did, and it protects everything else
- Check 2fa.directory - I used this to find which of my accounts support 2FA
- Enable automatic updates - I did this on all my devices and Mom’s too
- Help a family member - Setting up Mom’s password manager was worth every minute
Next in Series
Part 3: Network & Home Security →
Learn how I protect my home network with routers, firewalls, and proper configuration. This is where I build my digital fortress.
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Last updated: January 31, 2025